Hammer-blow

Sit up straight, don't slouch. Stand up straight, shoulders back. An instruction given by adults, an instruction I now tell myself, and still, as always, gradually slide into a lazy posture. I can be attentive in this pose, or at least I think I can, although perhaps I'm only semi-listening, semi-taking-in whatever is being said or whatever my eyes are running over. My mind is possibly wandering aimlessly elsewhere, it's attention only a little caught by some word or sentence vocalised or written, which sets it off again in another direction.

This is happening quite a lot with Margaret Atwood, because her stories seem to prod and poke old thoughts, old memories, old times, or impart, like a teacher, aspects of a question or text I hadn't considered. Robert Browning's The Last Duchess is looked at with the eye of a student and an examiner; the whole plot of Hardy's Tess of the d'Ubervilles is described in a single paragraph. 'Tess had serious problems.' My mind sees Gemma Atherton as Tess and Eddie Redmayne as Angel Clare. Were either, I now wonder, right for those parts? Was the version they starred in like the book? Have I read it? I can't remember. Hardy was not a prescribed author. Seamus Heaney was, as was the bloke who wrote Z for Zachariah, and, of course, Shakespeare. It's only in adulthood I wish Hardy had been a set author, like I wish a different Shakespeare play – we did A Midsummer Night's Dream – had been assigned. It's still today my least favourite. Okay, I hate it. We pulled it apart and dissected it too much, and, in truth, I thought it silly.

But then I think myself silly too, in both senses. My over-active mind runs away on its own, to lands unknown or to mapped territory, and gets lost. Hesitates somewhere, departs from the way, and pours over, some years later, the missed or not taken turnings. My musings the same as Atwood's: Have I missed my own future, the life I was supposed to have? Where was the point I missed it? Did a hammer-blow, delivered by my three-old-cousin with a grown-up tool, to my eight-year-old forehead dampen my spirit and cause a chemical imbalance? Has owning a flat and furnishing it with my own possessions slowed me down, shut me off from what should have have been mine?

There are too many whys, too many maybes. If that other place, that other future ever existed, it's gone now.

Picture credit: Painting to Hammer a Nail, 1966, Yoko Ono (source: WikiArt).

See Moral Disorder by Margaret Atwood.

From journal, May 2023.

Knitting a Yarn

Commence at the commencement, where only fairy tales begin. Once upon a time there was a spinster in her cradle, cut out for spinsterhood long before her birth. When older, and well established as a spinster, she thought she'd perhaps had a voice in the matter, had perhaps chosen this course for herself. Her purpose not to procreate but to read, often absorbingly, sometimes mechanically; to at all times keep her eyes and fingers employed. And indeed she may be right, for, if reading and a little life experience had taught her anything it was that a crowd out for fun could easily become a mob out for blood. She did not dispute this truth but rather feared it.

Picture credit: The Artist's Wife Knitting, 1920,William James Glackens (source: WikiArt).

From journal, May 2023.

Bukowski

Whiskey, scotch, beer, wine, vodka, gin. One more drink … Left thumb dead, liver shot, high blood pressure, haemorrhoids, ulcers and Christ knows what! Cigarette after cigarette. And symphony records.

Picture credit: Alcoholic Calavera, 1888, Jose Guadalupe Posada (source: WikiArt).

See we've got to communicate by Charles Bukowski.

From journal, April 2023.